The Wellbeing Benefits of Compassion for Young People
Children and teenagers are at a unique developmental stage—navigating identity, social pressures, and emotional intensity. Compassion practices can help them:
1. Reduce Self-Criticism and Inner Shame
Teens often carry harsh inner voices. Compassion-based journalling and letter writing teach them to speak to themselves more kindly. Research indicates that self-compassion is associated with greater psychological health, including increased life satisfaction and emotional resilience, and decreased anxiety and depression 1.
2. Regulate Difficult Emotions
Using tools like the three emotional regulation systems (threat, drive, and soothing), students can better understand and manage their stress responses. This framework is central to Compassion Focused Therapy, which aims to help individuals develop and work with experiences of inner warmth, safeness, and soothing through compassion and self-compassion 2.
3. Build Resilience and Self-Worth
Rather than focusing on achievements or comparison, compassion practices help children value themselves from the inside out. Teaching compassion to kids enhances their emotional intelligence and fosters empathy, creating a foundation for nurturing relationships 3.
4. Strengthen Social Connection
Compassion for self naturally extends to others. Exercises in empathy, common humanity, and non-judgment help foster safer, more inclusive classrooms. Empathy and inclusivity are essential values that help promote a safe and inviting environment in which all students can learn effectively 4.
5. Improve Focus and Mental Health
Research shows that compassion-based mindfulness improves emotional wellbeing, reduces anxiety, and can enhance academic focus and motivation. Implementing social-emotional learning (SEL) programs in schools is associated with improved academic performance and reduced aggression 5.